A surprisingly good series that Netflix's algorithm recommended for me a few years ago and I enjoyed a lot was Way of The House Husband. I don't think most husbands and dads out there appreciate the amount of effort required to run a household. So the way the creators turn the trope on its head, by having a tough as nails ex Yakuza take over the house so that his wife can keep her day job is really fun.
I grew up in a really conservative household where my stepdad didn't do any work around the house, chores were left to women and children. My mom, super liberal ex hippy, married into this when I was 9 and she taught me to help out around the house in spite of this. So, I never wanted to grow up to be a husband who always complained and never helped out and when I got married and had kids I fully intended to do my "fair share" of household labor. In reality though the division of labor was immediately tilted against my wife. We had a couple of conversations about it, and since I was the primary breadwinner and she was staying at home, that she would take of the house (our tiny apartment) and I would help out when I could.
Experience tells me that this was a trap, but it's very easy to fall into, thinking that working full time and heroically stepping in to do dishes or laundry when things get bad is enough. But we settled into this pattern, had a kid (eventually followed by two more) moved into a bigger house, and kept things, more or less the same. I wasn't completely oblivious to this, I could see the toll it was taking on my wife so I started to do more to help out around the house. That's when I started to realize how much actual work it is, and why most men who try to be a stay at home dad run screaming back to the office.
Working 9-5 is much, much easier than being a mom 24/7. I've found that no matter how much I help, even now all of these years spent being fully committed to "The Way", it doesn't feel like I can ever get to a 50/50 split. I think that understanding that is also part of walking this path, it's a never ending journey.